His anger is but for a moment, and His favor is for a lifetime. Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning. Psalm 30:5
At the age of 37 I entered a three-year “dark night of the soul” called mid-life crisis. No, I didn’t buy a red sports car, abandon my family, and become a beach bum. Mostly I cried a lot. Sometimes at night I would go outside, look up at the stars, and ask, “God, where are you?” and weep again because the heavens were brass. One day I fell crying into my wife’s lap—telling her that I needed God to step out of heaven and tell me that everything will be all right. Her answer was Spirit-inspired: “God is not going to step out of heaven and tell you that, but I’m here and I’m telling you that everything is going to be all right!” Marge and my friends became the voice and heart of Jesus during that bleak time. They took my hand and carried the Light for me throughout the night until morning came again.
Among the many lessons I learned at that time is when your soul is in anguish, the wonder of creation loses it’s capacity
to create joy. I even wrote a psalm about it—my mid-life crisis psalm. I’d like to repeat it here, but I’ve misplaced it. The sum of it, though, is that I bewailed the loss of joy in my vocation as a Christian school administrator, in my wife and children, and in the natural world. Living in Northern California at the time, I had access to some of the world’s most amazing natural wonders: Big Sur, the redwood forest, the Sierra Nevada, Point Reyes, and typically awe-inspiring Yosemite. Yet they became incapable of giving me joy. I was heartsick and only God could heal me—which He eventually did. And I learned the lesson that C. S. Lewis taught in Screwtape Letters:
Sooner or later [God] withdraws, if not in fact, at least from [the believer’s] conscious experience, all. . . supports and incentives. He leaves the creature to stand up on its own legs—to carry out from the will alone duties which have lost all relish. It is during such trough periods, much more than during the peak periods, that it is growing into the sort of creature He wants it to be. [Chapter 8]
The creation by itself never satisfies the soul—a fact learned when one is heartsick. It’s the existence, love, and care of our Creator/Savior and His people that makes joy in anything possible. If the soul of someone in your sphere of influence is struggling in the night, stay with them and carry the Light; and keep reminding them that joy—and growth—will come again with the morning.
[Yosemite photos Uploaded on November 17, 2009 by ohad*]
[Candle image: www.massbible.org/blog/labels/light.html]

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From Calvin:
In one of his books, John Muir mistakenly attributed the death of a simple-minded neighbor to the man’s brother who was rumored to have forced him into such hard labor that the physically overtaxed man died and fell forward onto a pile of firewood he was splitting. Though no names were mentioned, the accused man’s son recognized that it was his father that the naturalist was describing as the abuser. So the man, then in his seventies like Muir, informed Muir that the rumor was not true—yet still confessing that he, like Muir, had been regularly beaten by his father merely for not working hard enough or meeting his father’s nearly impossible requirements. Muir felt so bad about the mistake that he had the publisher redo the book galleys. In a letter to his former neighbor, however, John spoke of his feelings about abusive parenting which grew out of his experience as the oldest son of Daniel Muir:
Toiling in the treadmills of life we hide from the lessons of Nature. We gaze morbidly through civilized fog upon our beautiful world clad with seamless beauty, and see ferocious beasts and wastes and deserts. But savage deserts and beasts and storms are expressions of God’s power inseparably companioned by love. Civilized man chokes his soul as the heathen Chinese their feet. We depreciate bears. . . . They are not companions of men but children of God, and His charity is broad enough for bears. . . . God bless Yosemite bears! [Read 
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